What would you like to change? What new story will you bring to life?  


Hi, I’m Cindy Valliere, founder, owner, and CEO of The Self Consultancy®, a coaching, learning and development company. As human beings we naturally speak in ‘stories’; what we tell ourselves and others about what’s happening in our lives or something that we want to see change or make happen. The problem is that most of us are unaware of the knowledge, tools and skill-set it takes to explore, then foster change in some aspect of our lives.

Objective self-reflection is nearly impossible to do by ourselves.

Over the past two decades, I’ve worked with extraordinary individuals seeking something different or better. Some pursued a calling, championed a movement, or went back to school. Others became more empowered leaders, vacated corporate America to start a business, or worked through a major life transition or crossroad. 

In the context of our stories, we get lost, overwhelmed or confused, with much judgment about ourselves and others. For example, we may think: I don’t have the skills; it will take too long; others are better than me; it’s never been done before; what will people think; I’m too young (or too old).

Working through a narrative model, you’ll view life in present time, investigate what’s really going on under the surface so you can develop new perspectives and achieve desired outcomes.  

Once you step back and understand the story you presently live, you have the power to change it. 

It would be a privilege and honor to be your teacher, adviser, coach, and advocate, as you take on what you want to see happen in your life. This journey can challenge and test your commitment to yourself more than you can imagine.

But the reward is worth it!

I always offer a complimentary consultation, so please contact me to talk about what’s possible for your life! 


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  • Cindy’s ability to drill down on what matters is amazing. She has truly inspired me, challenged me and sharpened my leadership effectiveness, all of which has helped me strike a good balance at work and at home.

    —Massie Flippin, Vice President and City Manager, Liberty Property Trust

  • To say that Cindy has helped me change my life would be the biggest understatement. Since day one, she led me to a path of enrichment and self-evolution untangling the webs of my life. She is genuine, giving, intuitive and caring.


  • My relationship with Cindy is characterized by transformation. I have taken quantum leaps in the areas of confidence, courage and clarity. Under her dynamic influence, I’m a different person, but more myself than ever.

    —D. S., Business Owner

  • Our clients have seen Cindy’s positive energy, detailed analytical process, and intuitive skills help them get back on the right track. We think working with Cindy offers outstanding potential returns.

    —Dennis G. Stearns, CFP, ChFC, President, Stearns Financial Services Group