Be wary of the old stories you tell your Self — you will surely be lived by them.
Hi, I’m Cindy Valliere, founder of The Self Consultancy®, a coaching, learning, and development company. As human beings, we naturally speak in ‘stories’: what we tell ourselves and others about what’s happening in our lives, and what we want to be different or better. Unfortunately, many of us are unaware of the knowledge, tools, and skill it takes to generate and sustain change.
It’s nearly impossible to be objective about how we see ourselves.
For almost 25 years, I’ve worked with extraordinary people who want or need to change some aspect of their lives. Some pursued a calling, championed a movement, or continued their education. Others boldly changed careers, elevated their leadership impact, vacated corporate America to start a business, or worked through a major life transition.
Where we often get lost is in our ‘stories’, those narratives we tell ourselves or allow others to tell us that trap our potential. It leaves us overwhelmed and confused. We believe the lies: “I don’t have the skills. I’m not good enough. Others are better than me. It’s never been done before. I can’t risk it. What will people think? I’m too old. I’m too young.”
Yes, your narrative can change.
The tools. skills, and methodology presented here are clear, concise, and simple. Yet, there is a profound depth that offers real transformational change to individuals, families, and communities.
Are you ready to take your next step? Let’s start a conversation to see what’s possible for your life.
Here’s to your new narrative,
Founder│Executive — Narrative Coach™ Certified Practitioner
Cindy’s ability to drill down on what matters is amazing. She has truly inspired me, challenged me and sharpened my leadership effectiveness, all of which has helped me strike a good balance at work and at home.
—Massie Flippin, Vice President and City Manager, Liberty Property Trust
To say that Cindy has helped me change my life would be the biggest understatement. Since day one, she led me to a path of enrichment and self-evolution untangling the webs of my life. She is genuine, giving, intuitive and caring.
My relationship with Cindy is characterized by transformation. I have taken quantum leaps in the areas of confidence, courage and clarity. Under her dynamic influence, I’m a different person, but more myself than ever.
—D. S., Business Owner
Our clients have seen Cindy’s positive energy, detailed analytical process, and intuitive skills help them get back on the right track. We think working with Cindy offers outstanding potential returns.
—Dennis G. Stearns, CFP, ChFC, President, Stearns Financial Services Group